Come On You Slags!

The following opinions are my personal belief. I would assume that some percent of males would agree with these views, probably a large percent, but cannot guarantee that this is so.

Being viewed as a slut is a terrible thing for girls once it has occurred. While it is occurring it is obviously an entertaining activity. But girls can find an endless number of excuses, just as guys can, to engage in activity with the opposite sex. People excuse their actions as 'sowing wild oats' or 'being a teenager. It is actually just being a negligent person. It boils down to not caring about the consequences of your actions, regardless of the fact that you can guess the consequences. You know that a person who smokes crack on a daily basis will likely come to be known as a crack head. How could you pretend that after sleeping around you didn't expect to be know as a dirt, or a slut? A slut is someone who is known to be willing to engage in promiscuous sexual activity whenever possible. How could you not expect to be known as one if you do that? If I'm half way through reading 'Mein Kampf,' and I'm throwing bricks through Jewish store windows, and attacking Africans on the street, I would expect to be known as a nazi. It just seems so simple.

The problem with being considered a slut. I would not want to marry a slut. I would not mind dating one, and getting sex, blowjobs, handjobs, or whatever, but marriage? No one wants to marry someone who has slept around, who sex is pretty meaningless for, who could have taken a dick bigger than yours before, who have had other men put their piss cocks into their mouths and pies, and let other guys jizz in them and enjoyed it. The thought makes me pretty grossed out. Men: would you want to walk down the street and see some guy who's stuck his dick in the person you love more than life itself. Someone who your wife thought, "This guy should be my first" not caring that one day you'd come along. Someone who could have gotten better head from your wife because it was before she gained bullshit inhibitions. Someone who your lovely wife wasn't good enough for. But don't forget to live by these thoughts for yourself, how would your wife like to think of you screwing anything and anyone.

Girls - don't save it for marriage necessarily but at least save your virginity for someone who you can be happy you lost your virginity too. Don't sow your wild oats, it's a lame, outdated notion. Make it more special for the guy, and for yourself. If you lose it to someone break-up with them and then find a new boyfriend who you start having sex with do not make comments that will make him feel like he is going out with a slut. Nothing about 'I suck better dick than her, that guy was the comparison point'. 'That was the first dick I sucked'. Or the brutal absolute, never ending defense of previous boyfriends to 'be fair. Fuck fair, try to give your boyfriend a little bit of a confidence boost, make him feel like a better man, god knows he'll probably feel a lot weaker for being the third, seventh, or sixteenth man to have sex with you.

But then again, you only get to live once, and in that one lifetime if you get an undeniable urge to be double-stuffed, or take three guys at once, or in a day, go for it. As long as you can live with yourself, and be honest about it to later partners. I can never decide if I was to tell a fiance that I had had two girls in bed with me at the same time whether they would be disgusted, or think 'this is a sexy man I got'. And some guys probably when told their fianc6 had two men at once might say 'wow, this is a sexual woman I got', but they could also say 'wow, I can never satisfy you sexually, you nympho'. Maybe I'm being old fashioned, but be careful.